yes, it bothered me that much. Why Do I Not Like Being Touched Anymore? - RideAble damnit. That jerk took it as I was just wanted sex and pursued me sexually. I start to tense up adrenalin starts pumping and get nauseated and repulsed by the thought of carrying out the act of full penatrative sex. They are experiencing an aversion toward sex. At first, he saidhe didnt tell me to do that but we hadnt had any kind of sexual intimacy even at that point for a long time. Even after three strokes, Loosing all nerve impulse in his legs He still Is considered one of the most deadly people to cross. I feel so bad for my husband because I dont love him any less and Im very attracted to him. Thats on you, but take care of yourself as well. Once in a while shell feel guilty and go through with sex, like the one time she allowed on our honeymoon. As the old saying goes: this is but one of many stories I have to tell. Thank you! I obviously have realized this is not normal, but until I ran across a few articles like this , I was just plagued with a guilt that was leading me into a depression. I find it really weird that this is seen as a disorder. Thank you for sharing your stories. WebBut due to this unexplained horrible feeling, Im very scared to breastfeed my babies one day for fear of them somehow sucking on my nipples will give me that sickening feeling in the core of my being. As someone from the other side of the spectrum, I can tell you that it could possibly be something involuntary within himself. He was not going to risk stranding someplace on the road in a winter storm without any vacancies except maybe an emergency shelter in some gym. It is day to day. Or even jokingly put someone down, even in jest. Step 4, move slow. No one is perfect. People dont realize that its a feeling not a choice. But sex, kissing and touching is not pleasant for her. A partner can enjoy being touched and other acts even if they have to finish things off themselves, it is down to the people engaging in the activities to define what is comfortable and works for them. Now more than 5 years after that we are still struggling along. Im only reacting to the words you put down. He was just like your boyfriend..a boy not a man. I had my opportunities, believe me, but never wanted to take them. Sometimes if I drink I enjoy sex. why am i disgusted when people show interest in me? If anyone could help, I would be extremely thankful! The key is to find a way to discuss it with each other in a way that doesnt leave either of you feeling anger and guilt. Everything I say, he manages to turn it into something sexual. We had a very strong friendship foundation. I would sit down and have a conversation with her on the way she is feeling just for clarification. Outracious, right?! I cant understand how God could allow this to happen to us. I rushed out to this scene. oh shoot hahahah, there arent any men out there like that. That is all they think about 24/7. I was able to be aroused and have really good sex, but I never saught it out. Thank you so very much. My wife and I of 6 years, always had very limited passion and the sex was always fine. It is physically impossible. Maybe that can lead to a solution of some kind. I now do it in order to keep up my end of the bargain although i do not enjoy it. We naturally feel disgusted I hate coming too close to him. Whats the point of putting all that time and energy into this ritual for a tiny moment of pleasure that feels like a sneeze. What do you like in bed? . Hi DVG, Who wants to have sex with someone who turns their back on you??! So we are trying, but the same problem still keeps us in separate rooms, with any thought of physical contact still repulsive to her. I dont think he will change so parting ways is a matter of time. Heartbreaking. I sincerely hope so. Seems to be written and from and for a perspective of women. Then I started to actually cringe when I was touched sexually. Why Do I Feel Disgusted When Someone Likes Me (11 Now its been over 10 years since we acted like a husband and wife in the bedroom. Again Im sorry for my disrespectfull tone in my previous post. DONT GET MARRIED!! WebSome people sometimes feel anger or disgust or even fear when another person expresses romantic attraction towards them, even if they are capable of feeling romantic attraction I hate sex,I dont want to even be touched. But she doesnt even consider for a minute that she, or we, could do something about it. I know that if I dont, he will leave me or have an affair. One actually resulted in a pregnancy, which I choose adoption.. for the sake of the child. I can relate to much of the article. One of the hardest things for me to understand is why she doesnt seem to really care. I have been to therapy, which helped a little but I still have the issues. Dealing with our emotions and our past is scary. Feeling guilty about not being able to please him. Because of the clarity of the message and the gravity of the situation, disgust is easily infectious: When we see someone who is disgusted, we quite often experience disgust as well. He looked at me and said feel free he was not ice skating someplace just barely warmer in mid winter than the mid west. I know exactly what the problems are too. But now I cant remember the last time we had sex. So youre repelled if you feel nauseous, nervous or frozen that I can understand but your also repelled if you feel nothing???? I had a great childhood as well, and I have a memory like no other, and I truly believe I would remember some sort of sexual trauma. I stood in front of my mirror a few times a day and told myself how beautiful I was and that I love my body, love myself, could accomplish anything I wanted to..ect.. Well.. you know what happened? It could also be a fear of imagined pain, which would lead to discomfort that you feel would overwhelm any pleasurable feelings.. We both have the means to have our own home. Its getting worse as I get older. I havent bothered with sex for about 15 years, just wont get up anymore. I cant go without so I guess that I have to get it elsewhere. My husband said why warn them that would not have been fun for him. Not really understanding my condition or supporting he challenged to control me and manipulate his desires. I understand your choice to have them but I feel that the same would happen to me as well. New relationship with a gentleman whom my heart leapt and skipped a beat for. The Therapy may not only help with the Sexual Aversion, but also unlock an underlying issue that may be negatively impacting other areas of your Life. I am also I highly sensitive person so that may play a role in it as well. But I am slowly accepting that I cant change the past but I can allow healthy and sane people in my life on a daily basis. I think that, if there really wasnt a big factor in someones life converting them to that then what makes it unnatural? Assert your control over the situation by setting boundaries and ground rules. i had no clue i even had this because he was my first serious relationship and we love each other a lot, everythings perfect, i just freak out and grow so agitated about sex.